There are milestones and then, there are MILESTONES, and this week my friend Nina celebrated the latter—her 100th birthday! Yes, a century of awesomeness for our beloved Nina—esteemed islander, dear friend, kind stranger and generous heart that she is. At Nina’s standing-room-only birthday soiree, I resisted asking her the obvious question of “What’s your secret?” Instead, I asked others their thoughts on the subject. What does keep Nina so young? The easy answer is Nina is delightful with a capital “D,” and flawless on all levels. While I can only boast knowing her one decade out of ten, I still feel quite qualified in making such a pronouncement.
Mutual friend Karin suggested Nina’s indomitably positive attitude comes from not concluding, that is, Nina is in the moment; she finds joy and interest in each person and situation, and makes no quick judgement. Where many folks are closed and staid in their measures, Nina sees the possibilities or at least the other side of the conversation.
I first met Nina, as one of the “Three Carrots,” a trio of neighborly artists, keen on enjoying and sharing their love of sketching, painting, conversation and camaraderie. Most Thursday afternoons in the home of equally awesome friend (and neighbor) Phoebe, friends Nina, Phoebe and Karin would set up their art studio around the kitchen table. And should they be at a loss as to what to paint, an artfully arranged bunch of carrots would be elevated from potential side dish to still-life darling, and so their moniker was born. I always seemed to drop in around teatime, so as not to interrupt the painting process (or so that was my excuse). Their welcome was a warming as the spot of tea provided, and as delicious as any buttered scone. I loved my role as approved interloper, wading into a confluence of kinship, conversation, crumbles and steaming brew. When I’d returned home, walking up my gravel drive, I felt fortunate not necessarily to be the fourth carrot, but to always have a spot in the produce bin.
So if I had to sum up my little ramblings today, I’d offer this insight on my friend and the other fine souls who share such esteemed elder status: everyone has a story. We may see gray hair and smile lines, but beneath the surface beats the heart of a champion of life, someone who has fought the fight, worked, loved, sacrificed, bereaved, won and lost, failed and succeeded. Be kind and look deep into their eyes and hearts, and learn from a life well lived.
Happy 100th Birthday, Nina!
Well said, Tom – I’m happy the three carrots always have room in their produce bin for you -and for all of us carrot lovers. And amazing trio – and 100!!!! Can you believe it? It’s such an honor to know Nina!
I couldn’t agree more Pam!
Thanks for posting this Tom! What a wonderful comment on a life well lived. I’m almost 68 and I would be so pleased if when I reach 100 (or any other age) someone would write such words about me and my life! I’ve downloaded a copy of the paintings of The Three Carrots to put on my workroom wall as a reminder of where I am and how I want to live my life!
Nina, Phoebe and Karin will likely be gushing if not joking with each other about being role models. I’m sure you made their day; I know you made mine. Thank you! Tom
Lovely piece! Enjoyed it. You live in a corner of paradise, I think
Loved this piece! Good friends are truly the Roses in our lives. You are so fortunate to live on that piece of loveliness. Be blessed.
What a lovely delightfully written post Tom. Your friends sound wonderful!
What a beautiful birthday tribute to Nina! You are surrounded by a very special group of friends/neighbors on Vashon!
I have a friend who spends 3 months on your beloved island each year. She loves it so, staying in a converted apartment above a barn. No place she would rather be, it revives her sole. I have told her about your blogs and invited her to join your site. I hope she will, it will bring her even closer to the island she loves.